Quote from thisnameistaken :

When you go on a date to the seaside you're supposed to play air hockey over-competitively and accidentally fracture some of her fingers, that's the way to a girl's heart.

I thought you played ice hockey and went for a nice high-stick to the jaw! That's what worked for me!

Quote from thisnameistaken :

When you go on a date to the seaside you're supposed to play air hockey over-competitively and accidentally fracture some of her fingers, that's the way to a girl's heart.

Worked for me. Seriously. Air-hockey is our 'pants on' game now.

Quote from dawesdust_12 :

I thought you played ice hockey and went for a nice high-stick to the jaw! That's what worked for me!

You play hockey? I thought you were just one of those pansy refs?

Quote from thisnameistaken :

When you go on a date to the seaside you're supposed to play air hockey over-competitively and accidentally fracture some of her fingers, that's the way to a girl's heart.

LMAO, they have got an air hockey table in the 3rd arcade along down felixtowe as well, it never crossed my mind tho, more to the pity, would have been a laugh, although i wouldnt have played very competitively tho, i would probably just keep letting her win to be honest, i like to see her happy, thats my number one priority, it has to be (as i mentioned, very complex background stuff, not gonna go into detail about it but yeah, thats the way it needs to be) and if it means letting her win at stuff, letting her choose the films we go to see at the cinema, the places where we go out to, then so be it, its all about her.

I used to play for a long time, then I realized throwing power trips was fun. Although that's how I met my current GF.. I was reffing and she was watching (Jr. Hockey FTW!) and she creeped me on FB and.. yeah

My most recent flirt is 20 years old and produces porn (behind the camera), how's that for a change?

What? How?

Shes a prostitute?

Porn producer = prostitute... i somehow have a hard time following this logic.

I wonder how many dates it took her to tell you ... i mean its not someting you tell on the first

Somehow I think it smells fishy for a 20 year old girl to work behind the camera in a porn production. Unless she's there to help the male actors... get into shape.

Quote from jibber :

Porn producer = prostitute... i somehow have a hard time following this logic.

Oh come on now. I bet she gets it on it as well.

I've never met her, that's why i said flirt. She told me in the first conversation... she also mentioned most people react way different (shocked, rude, want to be in a movie (lol), etc) compared to my reaction (i don't give a damn... if anything i find it cool, haha).

She's a nice girl, and i'm interested in her as a person, not in her job. Will probably meet her sometime two or three weeks from now...

Quote from ColeusRattus :

Somehow I think it smells fishy for a 20 year old girl to work behind the camera in a porn production. Unless she's there to help the male actors... get into shape.

Some people grow up a little faster... i wasn't interested in her and told her she's way too young. But after some conversations (including phone convos), she later convinced me she's not the typical 20 year old. She's doing all the production work apparently from organizing the shoots, actors, camera men (she's not actually filming), cutting the movies together, distributing, etc. She started it with a friend, who then left because his girlfriend complained, now she's doing it alone.

I know it's not the usual thing to do for a 20 year old girl. But what the heck man... you gotta be a little open minded these days.

Just kidding.

Good for you. Like you said, its only a job.

Quote from DevilDare :

Just kidding.

Good for you. Like you said, its only a job.

Exactly.

Yeah, and it's just to pay for med-school right

She walks in, "OMG are you watching porn?"
"No honey, just watching your latest production".

Quite interesting if you ask me.

Good luck.

Quote from PMD9409 :

She walks in, "OMG are you watching porn?"
"No honey, just watching your latest production".

Quite interesting if you ask me.

Good luck.

Haha, i think you understand the way i see this... it's pure win! Hahaha! Thanks mate.

When you're actually mature enough for a relationship you'll realise when a girl says she wants a "break", she actually means "break-up", just in a slower and kinder way.

Here's one of the best tips you'll ever find...

Instead of looking for romance and love in your life as the primary source of happiness, focus on finding something in your life that you enjoy, focus on being happy with yourself, create something that is "you". Because at the end of the day, we're all on our own.

Hell.. doing stuff you like you tend to run into people who like that as well

Oh my god, you like hobby farms too?

No. I just trawl them for ladies.

Quote from jibber :

Here's one of the best tips you'll ever find...

Instead of looking for romance and love in your life as the primary source of happiness, focus on finding something in your life that you enjoy, focus on being happy with yourself, create something that is "you". Because at the end of the day, we're all on our own.

Some people will look at this and say "well duh" but in reality this is a great tip because people can get lost and try to change themselves in order to be with someone (I admit I did it once) and it just sucks. Be who you are meant to be, and you'll find someone that'll mean more to you than anyone else because that person will like what you like and who you are.

I think the happy medium is somewhere between trying to be someone else's ideal boyfriend, and being just yourself.

the drawback of trying to live a life fulfilling other's expectation goes without saying, but having had an empty relationship with a rather mega girl (great ass, great blowjob, doesn't need me calling her up everyday and no temper whatsoever) I actually miss my old girl friend, I start to realize she only had expectation in me because I mean something to her. I know I have a stake in her heart and I need to do better to make her happy, it sounds like a chore but at the same time it is also the greatest thing, to know somebody in the world cares about you so much.

At the moment, I'll much rather be with a girl who's honest and show me my flaws, than just another playmate.

Showing flaws only goes so far imo. Some girls think its okay to say something about you is a flaw when really its just something that makes you, you.

I dunno, my "Be honest about everything and be who I am" seems to work well. Even when the things I'm honest about are things that should normally be kept a secret, still seems to score me points.