1. wut, I can feel it just fine, make sure you haven't got the force up too high
3. turn off driver arms?
4. move the app? you have read about this sim right?
5. define 'shit'
6. drive practice mode
7. bets are you are doing it wrong. On clubsports and barely ever lock up (see matrixi post below)
Most probable idea is that they were only using 4 cylinders mid-corner when the throttle is initially applied (hence why they got on full throttle so much earlier than everyone else). Would also explain the hilarious noise they made in the corners as well.