None of the above.
I like winning, sure. I like coming up from the back to win, sure. I like coming back, not wrecking my car and making the top half of the grid.
But ultimately I prefer a darn good race, with someone I know and trust, either with lots of repassing, or holding a faster person behind, or trying to find my way around someone slower than me. The most recently example of a perfect race was with Exodus, on BLGP in the XFR I think. I was miles quicker than him (then), but I started behind him thanks to reverse grids. After about 3 laps I caught him (lots of people between him and me), and I spent about 15 laps trying every passing move under the sun, inside, outside, drafting, feinting etc etc. And each time he put the car in EXACTLY the right place to either block the move or retake the position. It was awesome, and I was so happy to pass him on the outside of the final corner!!! Thanks Charles if you read this!