My lap times are around 1:35 while everyone else's is 1:30. HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO ENJOY A GAME WHERE I HAVE NO CHANCE AGAINST ANYONE?!?!

. Rockingham and Blackwood are the two tracks I don't enjoy driving single seaters on. 
). Try to motivate to get better step by step. It takes time to be fast. For example I've done little better lap times compared where I started and on the other hand I have realized I most likely never learn to drive a car fast. Maybe you learn? It is the hard learning curve that makes this so enjoyable. Otherwise there would not be people who have driven thousands of miles.
, thus he is not quick 