why is it that i cannot see my see like 3/4 of the server list ? when i refresh i see like 185 including the empty and 14 without the empty ones?

I cannot even access my teams server...

Yes it happens when many servers give u "Can't reply" Two things you can try.

1. Try setting the filter to a particular car and then Refresh. It seems to show up previously missing servers atleast for me. (Example, I see 4 servers which run FXR when no filters are applied, but say I can see 8 when I apply FXR filter and search only those).

2. Login to LFS World at www.lfsworld.net . Click on "Racers and hosts online" It will show up almost all the servers.