I couldn't do that... I could deal with it if my partner wasn't into the things i was, but if it was making it hard for me to do said things...i'd go nutty.
I couldn't ever be with someone that didn't enjoy the things i do, i love it that my gf comes out and enjoys fetching me spanners/sockets.
Shes slowly distanced herself from the raving/clubbing, but she still enjoys coming out occasionaly with me.