I see were your coming from, but they use then stuff to make there bebo look "cooler" i mean i have to admin on my bebo i use some stuff like that, but it is just what wee do...take the easy road around things. I mean my bebo is reasonably normal, but your going to have sluts, slags and just generally weird people in ANY site like that your on, myspace, facebook or HI5 they will all be the same.