Hey, since i updated i noticed the cars can stall if left in gear and gears can't be changed with out clutch etc. Can this be turned off?

Sounds like your auto clutch setting has reset itself to off.
Turn it back on

Make sure this says yes:

https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/65780709/LFSForum%2C%20TTL%20forum/a/lfs_00000033.jpg

E: FU Bean0 :c

Aww god I thought there's a new official topic about an update or it's a progress report ... got so excited!
And yeah, turn on auto clutch if you want to drive like that.

BTW, the stall/no shift is there like.. long... I'm sure the last major update to clutch simulation was during F BMW release, after Scawen learned they are shifting without clutch. And I think this update didn't introduce those things, just refined them.