My friend has a dedicated host, and i'm certain he's updated to version s at the very least.

after the patch, i couldn't connect to the server. the server's up 24/7 and from my screen, it's not even on the list.

if i click "join specific game", after typing in the name and pw and clicked go, it'll say connecting to server

5 seconds later, it'll go back to the prev screen where you enter the server name info, etc.

i don't think i'm on his ban list (tho i've left him a msg to chk)...any other reasons why this could be happening?

thanks